Just something
Finally one study with which I kind of agree at some points. In fact this just seems to stick to certain little things which I too observed but could never put to words. Do not take this up as a case for feminism though!
Excerpts from the The Telegraph, Kolkata dated July 17, 2005
Opening up in cyberspace
Far more women than men blog — and more and more Indian women are expressing themselves on the Web. Vijayalaxmi Hegde who works in an online learning company in Chennai, began blogging more than two years ago. “I started blogging because I was restless. I had a deeper need for acceptance and approval from random people I didn’t know existed. I think many bloggers operate from this deeper need of approval. When something happened in my life, or when I observed something, I always thought of putting these on my blog,” she says. Reshma is not alone.
Jasmeen Patheja began blogging for purely professional reasons, but it soon turned out to be a personal space. Says the 25-year-old fine arts graduate from Bangalore’s Shrishti School of Arts, Design and Technology: “It became a form of release. I was connecting with women who thought as out-of-the-box as I did.”
Welcome to a little noticed phenomenon — the increasing number of women who blog. The survey by the US-based Perseus Development Corp. found 56 per cent of the bloggers it polled were women, versus 44 per cent men. Also, women are less likely to abandon a blog than men are. In short, women are opening up their lives in virtual space as never before.
Anecdotal evidence suggests that women write about personal or social issues, unlike men who focus on work-related issues. For instance, there are more chances of a male IT engineer running a tech blog than his female counterpart doing so. Says Swaroop C.H., a software engineer who works at Yahoo! Bangalore, and runs a tech blog (http://swaroopch.info), “I don’t know of many tech blogs run by women. Neither do I know of women’s work blogs.”
It is the way women blog, what they blog about, and the significance of the medium to them that makes the difference. Dr Sunil M. J., a psychiatrist in Bangalore who frequents many blogs daily and is an avid blogger himself, says, “I have noticed that women tend to be more emotive and family-oriented in their blogs, even across races. ”
So why do women blog? The sheer democratic nature of blogging promises to do a lot for women, who earlier had to make do with the under-the-bed diary. Patheja believes that blogging is popular among women because it allows them to exert control beyond what they are given in real life. “Women blogs are full of writings that would be considered outrageous in routine life. Women are not scared to voice their opinions,” she says.
All the women approached for this article said they considered blogging an important virtual space in some way. It fulfilled an inner need, a need to ponder about larger-than-life questions as these from Sihikahi (http://sihikahi.blogspot. com): “Have you ever thought that it can be so easy to lose yourself in the daily routine? I mean, you weren’t born for this mad rush between home and office, were you? Larger question: what were you born for? Still larger question: were you at all born for anything? Unless you stop for a moment and take stock, you won’t even know that with each contraceptive pill you have taken for years, and will continue to take for some time (coz you just don’t have the space for your baby), with each deadline reached in office, with each little happy thing postponed for later, you have lost the joy forever.”
These are a woman’s questions, asked in a space that’s fast becoming feminine. But will she get her answers? We don’t know yet, and that is not the point. The point is that the rest of the world can go take a walk while she blogs.
For the men who have come reading this far : If by now, your notion that 'women are just a bundle of emotions' seems to have gained weight, then peep inside. You too, probably feel the urge to express and gain approval. And, just because someone can, let not that be a discount on her credits. Instead, go ahead and write for yourself.
(On a lighter note, I never thought I would get this serious by the end of it all....just kept flowing with the thoughts. In fact, I believe these Women vs Men things make for a pathetic reading most of the times. However, at other times they can become rather exiciting ! )
3 Comments:
You seem to have got the sense of the article wrong....lets go para-wise
1. Statistics here just show that more women than men blog...nothing great with that. Hence I said I am not here to propagate feminism. Infact the statistics just form a small part of the article whose main focus is the differential nature in which female bloggers use the medium.
2.really didnt get this????
By Cherry, at July 18, 2005
Hi Cherry
Chanced upon your blog today. Pleasantly surprised to see my article on your blog. Thank you.
Actually, I think that there is no need to stress that women are 'different' in any way. Individual differences remain, irrespective of gender. The moment we say women do this or that differently, we acknowledge that all men and women on earth stand divided.
I know I am contradicting the very point of my story. But this is what I truly feel.
By Vijayalaxmi Hegde, at December 05, 2005
Hi Vijaya
The problem is not that we stress on the differences, it is rather that we are made to realise them.
I study in an engineering college where the boy-girl ratio is about 10: 1. Now,it might be because of this overwhelming ratio or the traditional view of this field, but the boys in my college cannot accept that the girls too are capable of doing things. Some are in the habit of mocking and exaggerating the sighest of mistakes that we may commit. They are themselves not infallible, but fortunately for them, their follies dissipate in the majority they enjoy.
I understand that this might be a very myopic view of the entire situation. For instance, you might not identify with it because women have long been active in the field of communications and media.
But that is story here. And trust me these things force you to feel that you stand divided.
By Cherry, at December 05, 2005
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